Monday, October 21, 2013

Is your partner driving you crazy?


Everyone has days where your partner drives you crazy and you might be wondering why in the world did I become involved with this person, and you might really hate them at some point.  Just know that is normal in all relationships!!!

Try these steps from the Gottman Institute.  Enhance your "Love Maps" means find out the high and low points of the day.  What was their best memory of childhood?  What is the scariest thing they had ever tried?  What is their favorite color, food, person?  What did they dream of being when they were a child?  What did they love doing as a child?  You get it. 

Start out small, and remember, we all make mistakes, and need forgiveness.  I am still a little mad at my husband from this weekend.  I'm still working on reconnecting and forgiving him, but I will get there!  You can get there too, and your partner can forgive you!!

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